We all want love. We all need love. And no matter how much we push it away or pretend to deny ourselves of it, our hearts will always desire it.”
― Corey M.P.

Dare you dream?

You’ve been single for some time now.  Maybe 3 or 4 years, or maybe 20.  You’ve gotten used to being alone.   Yes, it’s hard sometimes coming home from a party alone.  Having no one with whom to share your life and its joys, like the smile on your grandchild’s face when you told a silly joke, or the sight of a magnificent rainbow across the valley after rain.  No one to hold you in your  frustration or anxiety or during bad times.  

You’ve wished for a loving relationship, a relationship of comfort, ease, support and romance, like the ones you see amongst your friends.   But, as a senior woman, it seems impossible to meet men, impossible to find the one man who is right for you.  

You tell yourself you would prefer to be lonely rather than sitting on the couch watching tv beside someone with nothing to say.  And, still, putting the key in the door, knowing there is no one on the other side, it is lonely.

Perhaps you've given up on the idea of dating or, if not exactly given up, believe men are in short supply, and the sort of man you would like to meet is definitely not around.  Maybe you’ve tried online dating, maybe not.  But either way, it’s not something you are interested in – too many cons.

Yet you are still left with your loneliness.   And now Co-vid has amped up the loneliness.  Above all, you miss being touched. 

Dare you dream that you could meet someone?  Dare you dream that you could actually meet a beloved man during Co-Vid?

"To love is nothing. To be loved is something. But to love and be loved, that’s everything." -T. Toli

Opening the Door

"But how?”, I hear you ask yourself, “how could I meet someone, especially now?"  But, maybe, just maybe, now is the time to step out, to take a chance.  As Michael Bassey Johnson says, 

"You can’t stay locked in your room and expect either you to find love or love to find you.”

You don't need to stay in that locked room.  You can open that door and be ready for love to come in. 

This program is an opportunity to open that door, an opportunity to let go what you are holding that is getting in the way, to see what you can bring to a relationship, to gain clarity as to what are your "must haves" in a relationship, and to create a vision of what that relationship would look like.  You get to create your Love Manifesto - a clear message that you are ready for love.

I am 65 years old.  My body is post-menopausal, has 40 extra pounds, and I am soft where I used to be taut.  I was not confident that I could attract a mate now.  All the tools that I once had were gone.

 When I looked in the mirror, I saw a woman that I know I want to love but in actuality I felt a deep disappointment that I had allowed myself to get to this condition.  I asked myself, "Who could possibly find you attractive and, if they did, YIKES!  What then?" 

This is where Brenda Blair comes to my assistance.

I had several levels that needed to be cleared.  First, I needed to clear the residue from my past love interest.  I couldn’t move forward if I was tethered to the past through unresolved issues.  Like a surgeon, Brenda was able to help me identify the deep seeded beliefs and we were able to release them.  I was free of that anchor.  

Next came the need to feel good in my skin.  To be able to look in the mirror and celebrate my mature, womanly body and know that when I meet the right person I will lovingly and confidently share myself physically with them. Once again, Brenda assisted me to break my own long held core belief that I had to look a certain way to be attractive.  

The good news is that with Brenda’s assistance I have found a loving, satisfying (in all ways) relationship. I went from fear that I was unavailable emotionally, unattractive, embarrassed and shy, to confident, hopeful and most importantly I love myself so I am able to love someone else.

Thank you, Brenda, for helping me rediscover the woman who was always there.   Alex E.

Your Love Manifesto

Your Love Manifesto is the key to you finding love.  When you are absolutely clear as to your vision of relationship, believe it will happen, and put it out there, then you send a beacon of light attracting the one who is looking for you.

One of the ways to send out that light is via dating sites.  Okay, I can hear you say "Fair enough, but me, go on a dating site?  No way".  Maybe you've tried app dating sites with their superficial "slide left" approach, or tried regular online dating sites and had bad experiences. 

Here's the thing: it's how I met my beloved Jack, at the age of 65, after being single for over 16 years.  What I discovered in the process is that a very positive advantage of using a dating site is there isn't the "distraction" of physical attraction initially.  Either it becomes boring pretty quickly, or you begin to build other forms of intimacy, emotional, intellectual, creative, experiential, and spiritual, before you actually meet.  Don't get me wrong, physical intimacy is great but it is a spark, it flares up brightly but goes out without fuel. These other  forms of intimacy are the fuel that help keep that fire burning, or indeed ignite that spark in the first place.  

Meeting someone online is a super way of developing intimacy. One of the offerings in the program is one-on-one help with taking your Love Manifesto and creating a dating profile from it, so that you can send that clear beacon of light to the beautiful man who is finding his way towards you. 

When it's time for souls to meet,
there's nothing on earth that can prevent them from meeting, no matter where each may be located -
Jaime Lichauco 

Join Me to
Unlock the Secrets to Finding Senior Love 

 This  6-session online program will help YOU find the keys.  

Class Modules

Week 1:  Letting go your beliefs

During this session, we will use tapping to release any negative beliefs you may be holding around the possibility of you finding love, negative beliefs about dating, and using dating sites.   We will also look at the pros and cons of dating sites, learn how to identify scammers, and identify dating sites that would be a good fit for you.  

Week 2:  What do you bring to relationship?

In this session, we will explore your "must haves", your non-negotiables and the values you bring to relationship. 

Week 3:  What gets in the way of your finding love?

This week we will look at past relationships and identify any patterns you have had in relationship.  Why do you keep attracting the same sort of men?  How knowing your primary attachment style can help you see it's not about them - it's about you.  

Week 4:  The man who is right for you!

Here we turn our attention to the kind of man you want your partner to be: his values, characteristics and skills. Using Tapping, you will let go negative beliefs about men in general.  

Week 5:  Your vision of relationship

In this session, we will explore your "must haves" and non-negotiables, your love language, and the values you bring to relationship, and create your vision for relationship. What would it look like?  What would a day in the life of you and your beloved hold? 

Week 6: Your Love Manifesto

So now, you have your  love manifesto.   Let's stress test it.  How happy are you with it?  How well does it represent you and what you would like in relationship?  If you read it aloud, do you have any "yes, buts".  The Law of Attraction says that when we believe with our whole being in something, then it is so.  But if we have even the slightest doubt, then it doesn't happen.  We will tap on releasing your "yes, buts".   Now, it can be used as the basis for a dating profile.  And now you are ready to go, ready to have fun and experiment on a dating site.

Included in the program is:

  • 6 Weekly Online 90 minute Zoom sessions.  Each session will include coaching on creating a profile and tapping on whatever may be getting in your way.
  • Profile coaching, including a 45-minute individual session with me.  
  • Homework, quizzes and questionaires to help you gain clarity and prompts for building your profile.
  • A private Facebook group where participants can post questions, share, support and encourage one another, and join live Facebook guest interviews. 
  • Handouts and resources.    

What's really holding you back from attracting the man of your dreams?

I said I eventually cracked it.   What’s the secret?  It’s actually deceptively very simple: it’s not really about the men on dating sites. It’s about you.  It’s about your readiness for relationship.  It's about identifying and releasing what is holding you back: fears, doubts, beliefs, old patterns.  

It's about gaining clarity as to what you have to offer in a relationship.   Clarity as to what sort of man you want to spend the rest of your life with.  And clarity as to the sort of relationship you want to create.  

Release what gets in your way, create your vision, and learn how to put it out in a way that will attract the man of your dreams.

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. – Rumi

20th January - 24th February 2022
4 p.m. PST


$397 Early bird up to 3rd January